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		<title>2011 in review</title>
		<link>http://singleandworking.wordpress.com/2012/01/01/2011-in-review/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jan 2012 00:19:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Malamud</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2011 annual report for this blog. Here&#8217;s an excerpt: A New York City subway train holds 1,200 people. This blog was viewed about 5,800 times in 2011. If it were a NYC subway train, it would take about 5 trips to carry that many people. Click here to [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=singleandworking.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6893489&amp;post=268&amp;subd=singleandworking&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The WordPress.com stats helper monkeys prepared a 2011 annual report for this blog.</p>
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<p>Here&#8217;s an excerpt:</p>
<blockquote><p>A New York City subway train holds 1,200 people. This blog was viewed about <strong>5,800</strong> times in 2011. If it were a NYC subway train, it would take about 5 trips to carry that many people.</p></blockquote>
<p><a href="/2011/annual-report/">Click here to see the complete report.</a></p>
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		<title>Tumblr Numbers: The Rapid Rise of Social Blogging [INFOGRAPHIC]</title>
		<link>http://singleandworking.wordpress.com/2011/11/23/tumblr-numbers-the-rapid-rise-of-social-blogging-infographic/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 19:41:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Malamud</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I tried to tell you guys, but this is the blogging platform of the future! I also really love Posterous, but Tumblr has definitely taken the lead. Tumblr Numbers: The Rapid Rise of Social Blogging [INFOGRAPHIC].<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=singleandworking.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6893489&amp;post=262&amp;subd=singleandworking&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I tried to tell you guys, but this is the blogging platform of the future! I also really love Posterous, but Tumblr has definitely taken the lead.</p>
<p><a href="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/11/mashable_infographic_graphics-tumblr1.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-265" title="mashable_infographic_graphics-tumblr1" src="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/11/mashable_infographic_graphics-tumblr1.jpg?w=450&#038;h=2713" alt="" width="450" height="2713" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://mashable.com/2011/11/14/tumblr-infographic/">Tumblr Numbers: The Rapid Rise of Social Blogging [INFOGRAPHIC]</a>.</p>
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		<title>Twitter Customer Service: the Good, the Bad, the Ugly</title>
		<link>http://singleandworking.wordpress.com/2011/06/27/twitter-customer-service/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jun 2011 05:00:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Malamud</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When it comes to friends, family and brands, I am about the most loyal person you will find. The reasoning behind the friends and family part is pretty obvious, but the reason I am a brand loyalist is very simple: customer service.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=singleandworking.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6893489&amp;post=242&amp;subd=singleandworking&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/twittercustomer-services.png"><img class="size-full wp-image-251 alignleft" title="TwitterCustomer Services" src="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/twittercustomer-services.png?w=450" alt=""   /></a>When it comes to friends, family and brands, I am about the most loyal person you will find. The reasoning behind the friends and family part is pretty obvious, but the reason I am a brand loyalist is very simple: customer service. When I find a brand that has good products and good customer service, it takes a lot for me to speak badly about it or even think of going elsewhere. Twitter has only made that expectation more intense for me. While this sort of behavior is typical of today&#8217;s new digital business landscape, I&#8217;ve decided to highlight some of the companies that I&#8217;ve had the best Twitter interactions with in an effort to recognize their good works and recommend, explain or discount where appropriate.</p>
<p>1) <a href="http://www.bekins.com/moving/" target="_blank">Bekins Moving Company</a> &#8211; @BekinsVanLines<br />
Bekins is by far the most impressive of my Twitter customer service experiences. I had a great experience with the company up until the delivery of my items. I wasn&#8217;t being kept up-to-date on my delivery time and when I finally did get an answer, they changed the date.</p>
<p>I took to Twitter to express my unhappiness and Bekins not only immediately responded, but then took steps to correct the issue. They listened to me vent via Twitter direct message. I then received a personalized apology email directly from the manager of customer care, a call from customer service with the correct information and a manageable expectation and follow-up calls up until the delivery date. It was easy to overlook this tiny blip because the customer service was quick and efficient, and the goods were delivered perfectly.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><a href="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/bekins1.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-247" title="Bekins" src="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/bekins1.jpg?w=450" alt=""   /></a></p>
<p>2) <a href="http://www.sears.com/shc/s/v_10153_12605_Automotive?i_cntr=1308885516084" target="_blank">Sears Automotive </a>- @SearsAuto</p>
<p>This was the most surprising &#8211; and hilarious &#8211; of my Twitter business interactions. I visited Sears Automotive to get my car prepped for a recent cross-country trip. My sarcastic Foursquare check-in caught the eye of the @SearsAuto Twitter manager, and completely catching me off guard, he/she inquired about my experience. Not only did I receive great service in the shop &#8211; which made my comment completely unfounded &#8211; but  @SearsAuto responded and followed up gracefully; forever earning them a special place in my heart when it comes to auto service.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><a href="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/sears1.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-245 aligncenter" style="border:1px solid black;" title="Sears" src="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/sears1.jpg?w=450" alt=""   /></a></p>
<p>2) <a href="http://www.wholefoodsmarket.com/" target="_blank">Whole Foods </a>- @WholeFoods</p>
<p>While living in D.C. I was a pretty frequent shopper at Whole Foods. My store was always busy, so you came to expect a level of curtness from everybody in the store. However, one early morning the staff was just a bit too rude, so I took to Twitter to talk to Whole Foods&#8217; very active Twitter feed. I give Whole Foods honorable mention here because they did respond. It took a couple of days and I was a bit surprised by their asking me how I would like them to respond to their staff, but the fact that they even bothered to write back and took what I had to say seriously, secured my business and has won them many a positive retelling of my Twitter conversation with @WholeFoods.</p>
<p><a href="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/whole-foods.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-248" title="Whole Foods" src="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/whole-foods.jpg?w=450" alt=""   /></a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.alamo.com/" target="_blank">Alamo Rent a Car </a>- @alamocares</p>
<p>One of the main things to understand about Twitter customer service is that just because you express unhappiness, doesn&#8217;t mean a company is going to move mountains for you. Understanding that expectation was key to my experience with @alamocares. I rented twice with Alamo, both times tweeting about my dismay, and both times @alamocares tweeting back that they were listening. To the Twitter team&#8217;s credit, they messaged me back right away. Unfortunately, once I took the conversation off of Twitter the tone completely changed.</p>
<p>I am not looking to smear any company names in this post, but I bring this up to point out that how a company converses with a customer once they are out of the Twitter spotlight makes a difference. I didn&#8217;t expect them to refund me everything, but rather care a bit more than was expressed. We agreed to disagree and that&#8217;s the price of business, but as I told them, I will not be renting from Alamo anytime in the near future.</p>
<p><a href="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/alamo.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-249" title="Alamo" src="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/alamo.jpg?w=450" alt=""   /></a></p>
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		<title>Let the Coupon War Begin!</title>
		<link>http://singleandworking.wordpress.com/2011/05/02/let-the-coupon-war-begin/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 May 2011 05:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Malamud</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Great infographic from onlinemba.com. Facebook and Google clearly have the better audience and access to data, but Groupon and LivingSocial have already mastered this audience.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=singleandworking.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6893489&amp;post=237&amp;subd=singleandworking&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great infographic from onlinemba.com. Facebook and Google clearly have the better audience and greater access to data, but Groupon and LivingSocial have already mastered this audience and business model</p>
<p><a href="http://www.onlinemba.com/deals-deals-deals/"><img src="http://onlinemba.com.s3.amazonaws.com/deals-deals-deals.jpg" alt="Deals, Deals, Deals... and More Deals" width="500" border="0" /></a><br />[Source: <a href="http://www.onlinemba.com">OnlineMBA.com</a>]</p>
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		<title>HOW TO: Negotiate for Happiness</title>
		<link>http://singleandworking.wordpress.com/2011/04/18/how-to-negotiate-for-happiness/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Apr 2011 05:00:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Malamud</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I realize that the job market isn't what it used to be, but as I was considering my job offers, I wondered how much room there actually was for negotiation in today's market and what the best way to determine my "wiggle room" when it came to compensation. <img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=singleandworking.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6893489&amp;post=221&amp;subd=singleandworking&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/04/negotiations_64605.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-224 alignleft" title="How do you negotiate?" src="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/04/negotiations_64605.jpg?w=450&#038;h=321" alt="How do you negotiate?" width="450" height="321" /></a>Your eyes meet across the desk. Sweat beads slowly form across your brow, but you don&#8217;t dare move and risk losing eye contact. You&#8217;ve made your statement and now sit in anxious silence, waiting to see if they accept &#8211; knowing the first person to mutter even the most incoherent sound will give up his/her position.</p>
<p>Okay, maybe most salary negotiations aren&#8217;t this intense, but when your living is on the line, it just might feel this way.</p>
<p>As a past insurance claims examiner, I was taught some of the &#8220;finer points&#8221; of negotiation: don&#8217;t talk first, silence is a bargaining tool, put a deadline on negotiations to move the process forward. However, as I&#8217;ve embarked on my latest job search, I&#8217;ve found these tactics to be outdated and irrelevant for today&#8217;s business world, especially when it comes to salary negotiations. I realize that the job market isn&#8217;t what it used to be, but as the job offers have started to come in, I&#8217;ve started to wonder how much room there actually is for negotiation in today&#8217;s market and what the best way is to determine how much &#8220;wiggle room&#8221; I have when it comes to compensation.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve assumed some of the basic negotiation tenants, i.e. be flexible, don&#8217;t get emotional, know the averages for your industry and geographic area, but these were the tips I found to be the most helpful:</p>
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<li>Let the employer bring up money first: allowing them to bring up the topic lets you know they are interested in you, and by the time it is brought up, you can feel more confident in negotiations knowing you have secured the job.</li>
<li>Consider the benefits package as a whole and not just the salary number: bringing home the bacon to pay the bills is critical, but you&#8217;d be surprised how much you&#8217;ll miss a 401K or health insurance if they aren&#8217;t available.</li>
<li>Understand what skills and achievements make you unique: employers will pay more for candidates with one-of-a-kind or in-demand skill sets, so make sure you highlight these professional qualities and bring quantifiable results to show how this can benefit their company.</li>
<li>Be comfortable with the process and the outcome: if you feel like you&#8217;ve been taken advantage of or are uncomfortable with the company&#8217;s tactics, there is a high probability that you won&#8217;t enjoy the culture or your co-workers, and there is no reason to set yourself up for failure right from the start.</li>
<li>Prepare yourself to negotiate for happiness: there are a number of factors &#8211; both monetary and lifestyle &#8211; that you should consider when negotiating for a job. Whether that is a salary number, flexible hours or telecommuting options, figure out your ideal work parameters before sitting down and be honest and flexible during negotiations.</li>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Mar 2011 16:13:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[After wishing, hoping and dreaming of attending SXSW for years, I finally made it this year! It was, as expected, the most fantastic conference experience of all time. Between the fun and laid-back atmosphere of Austin, and the insane amount of social media brilliance in attendance, I have never felt more excited and energized in [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=singleandworking.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6893489&amp;post=187&amp;subd=singleandworking&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/03/37479-e18b57af7b4acb21587a97ae6ac233da-100.png"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-212" title="37479-e18b57af7b4acb21587a97ae6ac233da-100" src="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/03/37479-e18b57af7b4acb21587a97ae6ac233da-100.png?w=450" alt=""   /></a>After wishing, hoping and dreaming of attending SXSW for years, I  finally made it this year! It was, as expected, the most fantastic  conference experience of all time. Between the fun and laid-back  atmosphere of Austin, and the insane amount of social media brilliance  in attendance, I have never felt more excited and energized in my entire  professional life. Throughout my first week-long SXSW adventure, I made  note of a couple of tips for fellow newbies. While there were a few  tiny hiccups, I could not have been happier with my first SXSW.</p>
<p><strong>1. Plan, plan, plan: </strong>The schedule of panels and meet-ups is vast and  overwhelming; add the extensive list of parties to the mix, and you&#8217;ve  got a scheduling nightmare. I would recommend mapping out your schedule  before getting to Austin, taking into account the distance of the hotels  and the potential for crowding. Always pick a couple of panels per time  slot just in case one is at capacity.</p>
<p>On the same note, RSVP for parties early. Most of the RSVP times  close on or before the first day of SXSWi, and while often they don&#8217;t  even look at the RSVP list, better safe than sorry.</p>
<p>You can use tools like Evernote and Plancast to help you keep track  of notes, links and plans for both the conference and the parties.</p>
<p><strong>2. Throw out all of your preconceived notions of walking:</strong> Living in  Washington D.C. for five and half years has given me some pretty finite  rules for walking. It may sound silly, but ask any urban dweller and  they will tell you that you stand to the right on an escalator if you  don&#8217;t want to walk, and you get out of the way if you need <a href="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/03/sxswfreenoms_twitter_reasonably_small.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-215" title="SXSWFreeNoms_twitter_reasonably_small" src="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/03/sxswfreenoms_twitter_reasonably_small.jpg?w=450" alt=""   /></a>to stop for  any reason &#8212; otherwise you will get run over.</p>
<p>SXSW is an eclectic mix of people from around the world who are there  to learn, chat and have fun, so they are going to walk slowly, stop  wherever and whenever they want and congregate in the most inconvenient  of walking paths. So, throw out the rules, take a deep breath and embrace the crowds.</p>
<p><strong>3. Network, but don&#8217;t be a douchebag:</strong> The first day of the conference I attended a  panel on &#8220;how not to be a douchebag at SXSW.&#8221; While funny, I couldn&#8217;t  believe that people would actually defy the rules of common sense and  sour the amazing SXSW environment. I was so wrong.</p>
<p>I attended panels where people interrupted speakers in mid-talk to  challenge them with their &#8220;personal&#8221; experiences. I watched as attendees  screamed smart-ass remarks at groups if they dared to slightly veer off  topic and have a conversation. I watched in horror as people pushed  business cards and pitches at speakers or audience members. Do not be  these people.</p>
<p>There are plenty of scheduled meet-up times to network, and while  SXSW is a powerful place for networking, start with an interesting  conversation before descending into a &#8220;me, me, me&#8221; spiral of promotion.</p>
<p><strong>4. You don&#8217;t have to pay for food or drinks:</strong> The  array of companies who are looking  for your attention is insane, and  they are willing to pay for it in the currency of food and drinks.  Companies will hire food trucks, set up tents, organize massive parties  and even stand on corners to feed you.</p>
<p>Word of mouth is usually the most effective way of finding these  locales, but you can also follow Twitter feeds likes @SXSWfreeNOMS or  @SXSWParty to help guide you. Sure, there are lines, but the food is  tasty and I can&#8217;t tell you how many cool people I met while waiting.<a href="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/03/sxsw2011_panelnerd.png"><img class="size-full wp-image-213 alignleft" title="sxsw2011_panelnerd" src="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/03/sxsw2011_panelnerd.png?w=450" alt=""   /></a></p>
<p><strong>5. Don&#8217;t spend all day inside panels:</strong> SXSW is playfully referred to  as the spring break for social media dorks, and it is so true. The  parties and playgrounds organized throughout the week border on the  brink of excessive, so enjoy them.</p>
<p>With all the amazing speakers and panel topics, I felt like it was  impossible to leave without missing some fantastic nugget of knowledge.  But in retrospect, I also feel like I missed out on some cool  experiences outside the convention center walls. Next year, I am working  towards more of a balance.</p>
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		<title>Social Media Landscape 2011</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Mar 2011 15:05:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Malamud</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[CMO.com has created an updated social media graph, providing marketers with a great tool for explaining the importance of social media marketing to management and groups of professionals unfamiliar with the benefits of social media. <img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=singleandworking.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6893489&amp;post=181&amp;subd=singleandworking&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Graphs like these are a great tool when explaining the importance of social media marketing to management and groups of professionals unfamiliar with the benefits of social media. In the past, the merits of sites like Flickr and reddit have been debatable in the corporate world, but this updated chart does a great job of explaining the levels of importance for each channel. It also now includes tumblr (which, in my opinion, means posterous is included as well), allowing for easier explanation as to how/why these sites have become mainstream tools for many brands and organizations. Thanks CMO.com for updating the graph!</p>
<p><a href="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/03/social-media-landscape-2011.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-184" title="Social Media Landscape 2011" src="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/03/social-media-landscape-2011.jpg?w=450&#038;h=741" alt="" width="450" height="741" /></a><a href="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/03/social-media-landscape-20111.pdf"></a></p>
<p>For a full-size pdf: <a href="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2011/03/social-media-landscape-20111.pdf">Social Media Landscape 2011</a></p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Feb 2011 13:56:48 +0000</pubDate>
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<a href="http://www.flowtown.com/">Flowtown &#8211; Social Media Marketing Application</a></p>
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		<title>Human Resources: to trust or fear your local department?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2010 05:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Malamud</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As a corporate communicator,  I've written countless pieces of messaging that explain the going-ons of human resources departments, and have spent a good amount of time preaching the benefits of trusting HR with questions or concerns - what is generally called an "open door policy." I have always believed that the HR department is worthy of this trust, however, a recent conversation I had with a HR professional led me to question this belief.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=singleandworking.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6893489&amp;post=156&amp;subd=singleandworking&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>As a corporate communicator,  I&#8217;ve written countless pieces of messaging that explain the going-ons of human resources departments, and have spent a good amount of time preaching the benefits of trusting HR with questions or concerns &#8211; what is generally called an &#8220;open door policy.&#8221; </p>
<p>I have always believed that the HR department is worthy of this trust, however, a recent conversation I had with a HR professional led me to question this belief. I couldn&#8217;t quite put these doubts into words until a friend sent me an article that talked about HR and the issue of confidentiality. The article, titled <a href="http://www.cincyrecruiter.com/cincy_recruiter/2010/03/can-an-internal-coach-or-hr-pro-be-trusted-with-your-secrets.html">&#8220;Can an Internal Coach or HR Pro Be Trusted With Your Secrets?,&#8221; </a>raises the question of whether an internal HR professional can truly be a reliable confidant if they are also expected to help make decisions about promotions or firings.</p>
<p>The writer, Jennifer McClure, was a former internal HR coach and she expresses surprise and sadness over this lack of trust. She says HR staff are unfairly &#8221;thrown under the bus&#8221; when it comes to confidentiality and credibility. As an internal coach, she was frustrated that her employees didn&#8217;t trust her to help because of her position within the company &#8212; even though she did understand the concern.</p>
<p>Should this distrust really surprise anybody, though? If you look back at the history of HR, you will find that the field was created by management at large companies to increase the productivity of staff who were negatively responding to a post-industrial revolution working environment. At the time of origin, the employers had little concern over employee&#8217;s mental health and more concern about their physical ability to produce a product, so HR became the mediator. Over the years, HR evolved as a way to enforce labor laws and ethical standards produced by the federal government, and today, has the added responsibility of ensuring employee engagement and satisfaction as a way to produce maximum business potential for management.</p>
<p>Since HR has these divided loyalties, <a href="http://jasonseiden.com/no-you-cant-trust-hr-in-fact-you-cant-trust-anyone/">Jason Seiden </a>&#8211; in response to McClure&#8217;s article &#8212; argues that not all HR professionals are a danger to their employees, but that they need to be more clear about their dual roles since they are perceived to hold great power within the organization. He proposes that before having a conversation with an employee, the HR professional should say something like, &#8220;Remember, I have a dual role here. I have an obligation to the company, and I also have information that I can’t share back with you; please keep that in mind.&#8221;</p>
<p>There is no doubt that this is a controversial subject &#8212; McClure&#8217;s article prompted a bevy or emotional comments &#8212; and I have personally been forced to confront this issue recently. In my opinion, a bit more honesty, like the statement that Seiden proposes, would go a long way to build more credibility for HR professionals. </p>
<p>I am interested in knowing what you think: Is trust an issue when it comes to HR? Is it just a well-known fact that you should stay away from that area or do you think HR professionals provide a critical support for employees?</p>
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		<title>Forget the apple; find a furry friend to keep the doctor away</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 05:00:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laura Malamud</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As a life-long pet owner and avid animal lover, I have always been able to talk -- at length -- about the benefits of pets. Sadly, I had to leave my dog Nestle with my parents when I moved to D.C., but lately I have noticed an increasing number of my friends bringing a pet into their house.<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=singleandworking.wordpress.com&amp;blog=6893489&amp;post=131&amp;subd=singleandworking&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>As a lifelong pet owner and avid animal lover, I have always been able to talk &#8212; at length &#8212; about the benefits of pets.</p>
<p><a href="http://singleandworking.files.wordpress.com/2010/02/sadie1.jpg"></a>Sadly, I had to leave my dog, Nestle, with my parents when I moved to D.C., but lately I have noticed an increasing number of my friends bringing a pet into their house.</p>
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<p>At first, I attributed all the new puppy and kitty love to the obvious large event that happens for people in my age group: serious relationships and/or marriage. However, after petsitting one of my newly adopted and absolutely adorable puppy nephews, my friend pointed out another possible motivation: improved health.</p>
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<p>Based on my personal observations, the stress level of people in their latter 20&#8242;s and early 30&#8242;s increases rapidly. Our careers get more serious, relationships become marriages and financial obligations increase with the purchases of cars or homes. So, I assume the thought process goes something like, &#8220;if I am going to take on more responsibility anyhow, why not take on something that will make me happy every time I walk through the door.&#8221;</p>
<p>Apparently, science backs up my  not-so-hard-to-imagine theory. According to an article in Discovery Health, pets have proven to help people in high-stress situations find relaxation.</p>
<p>&#8220;The simple act of petting an animal is known to cause a person&#8217;s blood pressure to drop,&#8221; says Alan Beck, ScD, director of the Center for the Human-Animal Bond at Purdue University.</p>
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<p>In a study done in the UK, dog owners were found to have lower blood pressure, lower cholesterol and were less likely to have minor or serious health issues. The study, done at Queens University in Belfast, Ireland, also suggests dog owners are healthier than cat owners, but shows that both improve overall health.</p>
<p>Having a pet not only helps with physical health, but can improve mental health as well. Pets have shown to help people deal with life changes, overcome loneliness, and give their owners a sense of worth and responsibility. Children with chronic illness and military veterans injured</p>
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<p>while serving both were able to handle treatment and long-term health better when they had a pet by their side. </p>
<p>Now, I&#8217;m not advocating running out to purchase a pet without some serious thought, but you can always volunteer at a local rescue group or humane society if you want to get some time in with a furry friend.</p>
<p>I cannot tell you how much I have loved owning, watching and spending time with dogs and cats &#8211; plus, this post has given me the opportunity to post pictures of some of the cuties that I love.</p>
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