“If anything goes really good, then you did it.”

October 9, 2009 by lamalamud

“If anything goes bad, I did it. If anything goes semi-good, we did it. If anything goes really good, then you did it.” – Paul “Bear” Bryant

John Baldoni recently included this quote in his article, “Humility as a Leadership Trait,” and it just struck me as the most brilliant advice out there for anybody supervising design_team4employees. 

The article details how to lead with a spirit of humility, and the more I read it, the more I am struck with the need to share this somewhat simple, but possibly career-altering advice.

His advice seems to be common sense, but I realized that there are many leaders whose aggresive attempts at leadership lead to damaged morale, stunted development and sometimes high turnover.  

I won’t attempt to rewrite all of Baldoni’s article (a full read is well worth it, though), but the excerpts below are helpful in understanding the concept that being in charge doesn’t automatically garner the respect of others.

Temper authority. Power comes with rank but you don’t have to pull it to make it work for you.

Look to promote others. A characteristic of successful managers is their ability to promote others, sometimes to positions higher than their own.

Acknowledge what others do. Few have said it better than legendary Alabama coach, Paul “Bear” Bryant. “If anything goes bad, I did it. If anything goes semi-good, we did it. If anything goes really good, then you did it. That’s all it takes to get people to win football games for you.” Practice that attitude always, especially when things are not going well, and your team will rally together because they want you to succeed. In short, humility breeds humility.

Inspiration finally hits me at the opera

September 18, 2009 by lamalamud

barbertrio-090809It’s been a while since I could muster up the strength to write on my blog, but I saw the most brilliant opera on Tuesday night and it inspired this single girl to share my love of opera with the world!

Before I moved to Washington D.C., I was like the average 20ish-year-old girl when it came to my opinions of opera. I thought it might be boring, cost a lot of money and be full of stodgy, old people. Thankfully, a good friend of mine showed me otherwise.

My first opera was Madame Butterfly and it was far from boring. The tragic tale produced the most emotive and beautiful music I have ever heard. My next opera was Rigoletto and then my third opera — a birthday present — was La Traviata.The costumes, the storyline and the music were beyond captivating. And now this fourth opera, Barber of Seville, has officially demolished every stereotype that I have ever heard about opera. It was hilariously funny, with the singers acting out a slow-motion scene and a whole scene where the singers make fun of opera itself.

The point is: opera is fun. And people of all ages — especially young people — should go and make the arts (like opera performances) an integral part of their lives. I go to the Kennedy Center which offers deals for people under 35 years old, and I am sure other opera houses offer similar discounts. My suggestion, visit just one less bar and instead hit your local theatre — I am so rarely disappointed.